why we only have short bushes (and no flowers) in our yard

For years and years, we kept wondering why our shrubs never grew.

Too many rocks in the soil?
Not enough sunlight?
Wrong type of fertilizer?

Well, I think we’ve finally found the answer:

Sneaky-quiet four footed bush trimmers!

Yeah, silly us. No matter what the landscaper tells you, there’s no such thing as deer-resistant plants. When they’re hungry, they’ll eat everything in sight.

So, while other people might have beautifully landscaped yards, with petunias, pansies, tulips, cute little planter boxes full of primroses, and lush, full shrubs come spring, we’ll just go on watching our bush trimmers maintain the scrawny plant status quo around here.

But we don’t mind. The deer were here first. We took away some of their habitat when we built our house. Though some people hate having deer eat their plants, we love watching them, and think it’s kind of a miracle that they’re still around, despite how much development has taken place in our area.

Every day when I look outside, if it’s not deer, or Fuzzy the Fox, or a pileated woodpecker, or Mr. Donnelly the groundhog, I might spot yet another marvelous creature — like this friendly hawk, who likes to shop for dinner and practice his flight maneuvers. 


It’s a good feeling.

Besides. There’s a certain kind of beauty in short bushes.

sunday brunch

Look who came to brunch!

All winter, we’ve been seeing four or five deer roaming around our yard. We’ve been very lucky this year; I can only remember one sort of major snowstorm, and it melted away completely in a few days.

Anyway, I love catching a glimpse of them every now and then. We don’t mind them eating our bushes or flowers. After all, they were here first.

These pics are dedicated to Eisha of 7-Imp, who asked to see our deer friends several weeks ago. All the pics were shot from inside the house, so they’re not as clear as I’d like, but you can click on any one of them for a closer view.

Have a beautiful Sunday!

friday feast: “deer, 6:00 AM,” by sarah getty

I had one of those moments yesterday morning.

I was sitting at my computer, sipping my soy smoothie, reading blogs, answering emails. When I got up to do the laundry, I glanced out the window and saw a deer.

We’ve lived in the woods for over 8 years, but I am amazed every time I see one.  It’s a miracle, a blessing. They’re usually here one moment, gone the next.

When we first built our house, we were surrounded by over 20 acres of woods. A neighbor who had lived here for 30 years told us about the herd of deer, the bobcats, the black snake named Herman who had called these woods home for as long as he could remember. We were very mindful of preserving this unique natural habitat, winding our long driveway around birch, chestnut, oak, and dogwood.

Then a Big Bad Developer moved in and clear cut most of the woods we had grown to love. I hate looking at the backs of those mcmansions instead of trees. But we are thrilled to see the deer, especially since they lost so much of their roaming area.

Yesterday, I actually saw four — two does and two fawns. They lay in our back yard all day, resting, eyelids heavy, ears alert to the slightest sound. Their presence calmed and reassured me. I was honored that they felt safe enough to stay.

Sarah Getty is new to me, but her poem, “Deer, 6:00 AM,” perfectly captures that moment when you freeze in the presence of a deer, and a seemingly inconsequential encounter transports you into an ethereal, sacred space. This particular poem is from her first collection, The Land of Milk and Honey (1996), which was published as part of the James Dickey Contemporary Poetry Series and won a Cambridge Poetry Prize in 2002. 

Though none of my deer had antlers, I did stand a few feet away from one of the does, with only a glass door separating us, as I tried to take a picture. It was a good staring moment.

 

DEER, 6:00 AM
by Sarah Getty

The deer — neck not birch trunk, eyes
not leaf or shadow, comes clear
from nowhere at the eye’s edge.
The woman’s legs stop. Her mind
lags, then flashes, “Deer at edge
of the woods.” The deer’s eyes, black
and fragile, stare back and stop

her breathing. The breeze drops. Light
shines every leaf. She enters
that other world, her feet stone
still on the path. The deer stands
pat and takes her in. Antlered,
static as an animal —
not a statue, photograph,

any substitute — can be
because it wants to, it includes
her in the world it watches.

(Read the rest of the poem at Sarah’s website.)

Mentor Texts and More is doing today’s Poetry Friday roundup.

If you’re new to Poetry Friday, read this great article by Susan Thomsen. All are welcome to join the fun!